TWIN FLAMES -1.1 The need to let go & surrender

"What you resist, persists." -Carl Jung

A lot of resonance in C.G.Jung's famous quote (above) , the more you are resisting of letting your Twin Flame go -the more you are inhibiting the process and progress of the physical union. This may not make full sense, thus allow me to elaborate; it is very normal to develop emotional and mental codependancy towards your fellow counterpart - thinking of them 24/7, visualising future possibilities, trying to manifest it into the physical realm down from the 5D (in fifth dimension there is no fear and all actions are based on pure love only), in some cases even trying to establish physical communication, etc. But after all your efforts you realise that nothing is paying off and your other half isn't particularly getting any closer to you mentally, emotionally or physically speaking ,creating a vicious cycle where you want them here and now investing more time and effort and nothing is yet manifesting. This is the precise stage which needs to be treated with utmost delicacy & finesse as it may be the make or break ,affecting the overall intervention of divine timing ,ie how fast or slow things may take off.

Most important aspects to consider when you have developed emotional codependancy towards your Twin Flame:

• Currently you are classed as the chaser ,your counterpart being the runner (take it at face value) ,this does not mean you are chasing them down the road ,literally - but you are investing great amounts of time and energy thoughts wise nevertheless.

• The energetic investment you are yielding towards your counterpart makes them feel quite good ,as this isn't creating a void between you and them so automatically they do not feel in need of you (as their receiving your energy on a vibrational level).

• If your Twin Flame is in a karmic relationship or has a lot of karmic clearing to undergo ,given you do try to control the situation and get with them ,the energies will not be aligned and it may end up being a lower energy relationship -where self-esteem issues, codependancy and even mental/verbal or physical abuse may be prevalent.

• Don't bring bad karma onto yourself by going there whilst you or your Twin Flame are tied down to somebody else (committed in holy matrimony or aren't separated) ,if you are meant to be together the universe will compartmentalise everything in your favour as it should be. By not abiding to moral/ethical values we may attract bad energy towards us ,wait for your Twin or yourself to separate properly where you are fully available to each other and don't have to sneak around.

• Just because you feel this person is your divine counterpart - your divine feminine or divine masculine ,does not mean this connection/relationship will be all sunshine and rainbows. It is though! More tougher than regular relationships, simply due to intensity of feelings and soul connection involved. You both can bring each other up real high ,but also real low too.

• If you both aren't in alignment energetically and the runner has decided to stay ignorant to the connection and surrender to their ego ,no matter how much you may think of them ,due to their energetic blocks things will not move forward.

As the Twin Flame connection brings about spiritual ascension (the reawakening of your soul), you personally need to get the most out of it for your own benefit and fulfilment of your life purpose. Work on yourself first ,manifest things in your life that will bring you stability and happiness to you and your children. Most vital part is to be happy where you are and be grateful for what you have now. You need to be at a place where you choose to be with your twin flame ,not at a place where you think you need them to fill a void in your life.

Let them go & let them be ,indulge in reminiscing on their beautiful eyes ,sure but don't stay at a place where you desperately need their attention, so your ego can be stroked. Come from a place of a choice not need. When the dynamic shifts and your Twin feels your energetic departure ,the dynamic will automatically shift -now you will become the runner ,so let them chase after you!!!

And acknowledge the fact that sadly sometimes in this life time one of the counterparts do choose to run and ignore the connection completely, don't chase after them or get yourself into a bad energetic state ,there are a lot of suitors out there for you who can make you just as happy and offer you partnerships for life.

Move towards your Twin in a manner of comprehension that if they aren't mentally and spiritually ready for this divine partnership ,you need to let go and surrender to another plan the divine has for you. Energies are always shifting and you never know how quickly your Twin may let go of their ego ,heal ,clear their karma and become in alignment with your energy also.

Thinking and touching on the lyrics of Whitney Houston's -"I will always love you."

"If I should stay I would only be in your way ,so I'll go but I know I'll think of you every step of the way...

...I hope life treats you kind & I hope you have all you've dreamed of & I'm wishing you joy & happiness but above all this I am wishing you LOVE....& I will always love you.."

I feel like this beautifully portrays the paradigm of what is felt and what needs to be done -acknowledgment of ones true feelings, establishing the reality of the current state and letting it go where you have the respect to let her/him go and wish them happiness .